{"id":2337,"date":"2011-09-12T10:57:23","date_gmt":"2011-09-12T02:57:23","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/klinikong.com\/wp\/2024\/10\/29\/5-ways-to-deal-with-conflicts\/"},"modified":"2011-09-12T10:57:23","modified_gmt":"2011-09-12T02:57:23","slug":"5-ways-to-deal-with-conflicts","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/klinikong.com\/blog\/2011\/09\/12\/5-ways-to-deal-with-conflicts\/","title":{"rendered":"5 Ways to Deal with Conflicts"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><a href=\"http:\/\/theselfimprovementsite.com\/2011\/09\/12\/5-ways-to-deal-with-conflicts\/conflict2\/\" rel=\"attachment wp-att-491\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-491\" alt=\"Conflict2\" src=\"http:\/\/theselfimprovementsite.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2011\/09\/Conflict2.jpg\" width=\"550\" height=\"180\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p>Conflicts are bound to arise in our relationships from\u00a0time to time. Very often, conflicts arise from simple\u00a0mis-communication. At other times, conflicts are due to\u00a0clashes of personalities.<\/p>\n<p>Each of us deals with conflicts differently. There are at\u00a0least 5 ways in which we can deal with conflicts, but not\u00a0all of them lead to desirable outcomes. Can you identify\u00a0which of these ways you predominantly use to resolve\u00a0conflicts in your life?<\/p>\n<p><strong>1. Avoidance<\/strong><br \/>\n<em>\u00a0 \u00a0 &#8220;It&#8217;s not a big problem. Why rock the boat?&#8221;<\/em><\/p>\n<p><strong>2. Accommodation<\/strong><br \/>\n<em>\u00a0 \u00a0 &#8220;I&#8217;m willing to give up a lot to avoid conflicts.&#8221;<!--more--><\/em><\/p>\n<p><strong>3. Aggression<\/strong><br \/>\n<em>\u00a0 \u00a0 &#8220;I intend to win this conflict.&#8221;<\/em><\/p>\n<p><strong>4. Compromise<\/strong><br \/>\n<em>\u00a0 \u00a0 &#8220;I&#8217;ll give in a little if you&#8217;re also giving in a little.&#8221;<\/em><\/p>\n<p><strong>5. Problem Solving<\/strong><br \/>\n<em>\u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0&#8220;If we discuss this honestly and openly, everyone can win.&#8221;<\/em><\/p>\n<p>Not all of these styles are beneficial in the long run. The first\u00a0three may avoid or delay conflicts, or kick the can down the road a\u00a0little, but conflicts are not truly resolved. They may in fact\u00a0fester and get worse later.<\/p>\n<p>If you are using method 1 and 2, you may not be assertive\u00a0enough and may in fact be treated like a doormat by others.\u00a0If you prefer method 3, you may actually worsen the conflicts\u00a0more often than not. Method 4 gives a satisfactory outcome\u00a0but the best and most matured method is #5.<\/p>\n<p>We all may use any one or all of the above methods to resolve\u00a0conflicts in our life but there is usually one predominant style\u00a0we used more often that the rest. So, can you recognize which\u00a0is your predominant style in resolving conflicts?<\/p>\n<p>If you are not using method 5, I think it is about time\u00a0you give it a good try.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Conflicts are bound to arise in our relationships from\u00a0time to time. Very often, conflicts arise from simple\u00a0mis-communication. At other times, conflicts are due to\u00a0clashes of [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[7],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-2337","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-mind"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/klinikong.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2337","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/klinikong.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/klinikong.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/klinikong.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/klinikong.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=2337"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/klinikong.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2337\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/klinikong.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=2337"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/klinikong.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=2337"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/klinikong.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=2337"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}