{"id":2323,"date":"2011-05-16T10:57:23","date_gmt":"2011-05-16T02:57:23","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/klinikong.com\/wp\/2024\/10\/29\/what-is-success-real-success\/"},"modified":"2011-05-16T10:57:23","modified_gmt":"2011-05-16T02:57:23","slug":"what-is-success-real-success","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/klinikong.com\/blog\/2011\/05\/16\/what-is-success-real-success\/","title":{"rendered":"What is Success&#8230; Real Success?"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Many people say they want success. Yet, when asked what &#8220;success&#8221; is, they haven&#8217;t a clue. In other words, they say they want something when, at the same time, they don&#8217;t even know what that &#8220;something&#8221; is.<\/p>\n<p>What is success&#8230; *real* success?<\/p>\n<p>The best definition of success I&#8217;ve ever read comes from the writings of Wallace D. Wattles, best known for his classic masterpiece, &#8220;The Science of Getting Rich&#8221;.<!--more--><\/p>\n<p>In Chapter 1 of &#8220;How to Get What You Want&#8221;, a book he wrote prior to &#8220;The Science of Getting Rich&#8221;, Wallace D. Wattles writes:<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;Getting what you want is success&#8230;&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>There are two key words in Wallace D. Wattles&#8217; definition of success, the first one is *you*&#8230;<\/p>\n<p>Getting what *YOU* want is success.<\/p>\n<p>Not getting what I want&#8230;<\/p>\n<p>Not getting what someone else wants&#8230;<\/p>\n<p>Not getting what you think you should want because someone else has it&#8230;<\/p>\n<p>Getting what *YOU* want is success!<\/p>\n<p>Question for you&#8230;<\/p>\n<p>What do *YOU* want&#8230;<\/p>\n<p>What do you *really* want?<\/p>\n<p>Before I began studying Wallace D. Wattles&#8217; writings and applying their principles to my life, I had all sorts of &#8220;goals&#8221; on my &#8220;goals list&#8221; that, at the time, I thought were things I wanted.<\/p>\n<p>However&#8230;<\/p>\n<p>When I examined those goals carefully, I discovered I didn&#8217;t *really* want them at all.<\/p>\n<p>Travel is one example that immediately comes to mind. I had a number of travel goals on my goals list.<\/p>\n<p>The funny part is&#8230;<\/p>\n<p>I don&#8217;t really like to travel all that much!<\/p>\n<p>Here&#8217;s another one&#8230;<\/p>\n<p>I had a goal to own a closet full of finely tailored, custom made suits.<\/p>\n<p>The truth is, I&#8217;m perfectly comfortable and content running around in jeans and a t-shirt. As a matter of fact, at the same time I had this goal on my list, I was desperately trying to get to a point in my life where I *didn&#8217;t* have to wear a suit!<\/p>\n<p>One more&#8230;<\/p>\n<p>And this one, looking back on it, was downright ridiculous.<\/p>\n<p>I had a goal to own a white Lincoln Town Car stretch limousine and have my own personal chauffeur.<\/p>\n<p>What&#8217;s wrong with that, you ask?<\/p>\n<p>Nothing, except there are very few things I like less than being a passenger in a car, especially being a passenger in the back seat of a car.<\/p>\n<p>Hmmm&#8230;<\/p>\n<p>No wonder I wasn&#8217;t making any progress towards my goals&#8230;<\/p>\n<p>They weren&#8217;t *my* goals!<\/p>\n<p>Whose goals were they?<\/p>\n<p>I honestly don&#8217;t know.<\/p>\n<p>All I know is they weren&#8217;t mine. \ud83d\ude42<\/p>\n<p>I guess I thought these were things &#8220;successful&#8221; people did or had so, since I wanted to be &#8220;successful&#8221;, they were what I should want.<\/p>\n<p>I know that sounds silly but, judging from some of the questions I get, there are a whole lot of folks out there who think they &#8220;should&#8221; want all sorts of things they don&#8217;t really want at all.<\/p>\n<p>Now&#8230;<\/p>\n<p>Am I saying there&#8217;s anything wrong with wanting travel, custom made clothes or chauffeur driven limousines?<\/p>\n<p>Absolutely not!<\/p>\n<p>Unless&#8230;<\/p>\n<p>*You* don&#8217;t *really* want those things!<\/p>\n<p>So&#8230;<\/p>\n<p>How do you determine if *you* really want something?<\/p>\n<p>Simple&#8230;<\/p>\n<p>For each of your wants, ask yourself and then answer these two very important questions:<\/p>\n<p><strong>1. Why *specifically* do I want this?<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Be very, *very* specific in your answers and keep asking yourself &#8220;why&#8221; to each of your answers until you&#8217;re not able to answer the question any more.<\/p>\n<p>If you can&#8217;t come up with one or more clear, &#8220;convincing&#8221;, meaningful reasons why *you* want something then you don&#8217;t *really* want it, you just &#8220;think&#8221; you do.<\/p>\n<p><strong>2. How does it *feel* now that I have this?<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Close your eyes and imagine yourself as having already attained that which you want and pay particular attention to how you &#8220;feel&#8221; now that you have it.<\/p>\n<p>If it doesn&#8217;t &#8220;feel&#8221; good or if all you experience is an empty, &#8220;so what&#8221; feeling, again, you don&#8217;t *really* want it, you just &#8220;think&#8221; you do.<\/p>\n<p>In the first chapter of &#8220;How to Get What You Want&#8221;, Wallace D. Wattles also says this about success:<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;Success is essentially the same, whether it results in the attainment of health, wealth, development or position; success is attainment, without regard to the things attained.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>In other words&#8230;<\/p>\n<p>All success is the same.<\/p>\n<p>The only difference is what *you* want.<\/p>\n<p>Getting what *YOU* want is success!<\/p>\n<p>Once you determine what *you* want, what you *really* want, what &#8220;success&#8221; is to you and only *you*, your life will change, it&#8217;ll change rather dramatically and it&#8217;ll change faster than you ever thought possible.<\/p>\n<p>What&#8217;s the second key word in Wallace D. Wattles&#8217; definition of success?<\/p>\n<p>Stay tuned for the answer in Part 2 of this series! \ud83d\ude42<\/p>\n<p><strong>Author:<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Tony Mase is a serious student of the works of Wallace D. 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